Introducing the San Clemente Tenacious Ladies Meetup Group

San Clemente Tenacious Ladies Meetup Group (iStockphoto) Last year, I remember wishing for a way to meet inspiring, remarkable women working on tangible projects that would improve themselves and the world around them. I enjoyed challenging myself and tackling big projects. (Hello, benefit performances of V-Day San Clemente 2011 “The Vagina Monologues”!) Certainly there must be other women like me within or near my town looking to swap support and advice?

I was curious: How did other ambitious working women juggle their desires and goals without sacrificing their health and wellness, family time or social lives? How did they find the energy and courage to move forward when they hit walls and obstacles?

Certainly, we could learn from one another. But how could I find such women?

Meet Meetup

My search brought me to Meetup, where anyone can start or find a group of people with similar, positive interests. A quick search revealed that San Clemente lacked a group like what I envisioned.

So, I added it to my list of goals for 2012 and created one.

I’m pleased to introduce the San Clemente Tenacious Ladies Meetup Group.

We meet at 6 p.m., on the last Wednesday of every month at The Cellar in San Clemente.

I designed Tenacious Ladies to be part focus group, accountability group and support group. The main purpose is to have fun while promoting the personal and professional growth of other like-minded women.

We are a small group of remarkable women striving to achieve a variety of personal and professional goals aimed at improving our health and happiness. We support and encourage one another in creating and executing big dreams and projects.

We provide invaluable accountability to help each other stick to our goals and resolutions. Perhaps most important, we believe that these activities are performed best while drinking delicious wine and artisan cheeses and having fun.

Tenacious Ladies is for you if:

  • You are ready to get serious about achieving your goals in 2012.
  • You want to meet other ambitious ladies who like to dream big and convert those dreams into reality.
  • You wish you could connect with a group of women who understand the challenges of juggling careers with family and friends while maintaining a healthy, purposeful life.
  • You want support in reaching your goals in a fun, friendly atmosphere.
  • You love wine and cheese.

Be a Tenacious Lady! RSVP Today!

Come get support, encouragement and advice – and have some fun! Join us at our inaugural meeting at 6 p.m., Wednesday, January 25, 2012 at The Cellar in San Clemente.

What’s that? You don’t live in Southern California or can’t do Wednesday evenings? Don’t sweat it. I plan to create a virtual community of Tenacious Ladies later this year. Stay tuned! 

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Goals for 2012

Goals (iStockphoto)Now that the New Year is fully underway, how are you coming along with your resolutions?

Hopefully, you carved out some time to conduct your own personal annual review and reflect upon all that you did in 2011.

Now it’s time to look ahead for this year. What do you want to accomplish in 2012? What are your big goals?

If you want to accomplish some challenging goals, the best thing you can do is make them public. The more people you have asking you about what you’re doing, the less likely you will be to throw in the towel.

As with my personal annual review, I will be using the same categories for my 2012 goals.

This year, I’m trying to focus more on fewer goals. I want the theme of this year to be “consistency.” So, if I want to be consistent, it’s best to start small and build from there.

Professional Goals

Excel in My New Job
In November, I accepted a new job as a copywriter for Ignite Health. While the phrase, “Excel in my new job,” may seem vague, I plan to use my yearly employee evaluation as a way to assess my progress.

Graduate From the Health Coaching Program
In May, I am scheduled to complete my holistic health coach training program through the Institute for Integrative Nutrition (IIN). I’m more than halfway there and am on track to pass with flying colors.

Get 5 New Clients
I have two clients right now, but I’d like to have at least five new clients by the end of the year.

Join Toastmasters
I hate public speaking and, naturally, tend to avoid it. However, I recognize that this aversion is holding me back from doing better in my full-time job as well as in my health coaching work. I want to improve my public speaking skills and have heard joining Toastmasters is one of the best ways to do this.

Start and Run a Monthly Meetup Group
I’d like to start and maintain a monthly Meetup group for women who want to support and encourage one another in creating and executing big dreams, goals, and projects. The group will provide invaluable accountability to help its members stick to their goals and resolutions while having fun.

Conduct 6 Teleclasses or In-Person Workshops
I only offered two free teleclasses last year, so I’d like to try that again this year. I’d also like some of those to be in-person workshops.

Write 1 Guest Post or Freelance Article Per Month
I didn’t do this at all last year, and I wish I would have. I love writing and need to be better about seeking opportunities.

Stick to a Weekly Posting Schedule
As I mentioned in my personal annual review, I was haphazard in my posting schedule last year. This year, I’d like to stick to one post per week.

Relationship Goals

Take at Least 2 Mini Vacations With Mr. Man
I didn’t do this last year, and we recognized that its important for us to get away and spend more time together. So, I want to try again this year.

Call Out-of-State Friends More Regularly (as in More Than Once or Twice Per Year)
Again, this is another goal that was on my list from last year that I’d like to try and improve upon this year.

Financial Goals

Continue to Reduce Credit Card Debt
We’re doing well with this long-term goal, but we found a way we may be able to get out of credit card debt even faster. I can elaborate later, but even if that falls through, as long as we stick to our debt management program through AAA Fair Credit Foundation, we’ll be fine.

Build an Emergency Savings Fund
This has been a goal of mine for years, and every year I manage to save a little and then spend it all. This time I think I’ll create a separate “Do Not Touch” account within my ING Direct savings account.

Diet and Nutrition Goals

Eat One “Raw” Meal Per Day
This goal was inspired by my friend Liz, who has become a passionate raw foodist. I have no desire to go all raw, but I do believe in the benefits of a raw food diet. One meal a day sounds realistic for me.

Cut My Meat Consumption by 50 Percent
I’ve cut back on my meat consumption, but I know I can do better. This year, I’d like to cut the amount of meat I eat in half. I don’t plan to go vegetarian, but again, I believe we could all benefit from reducing the amount of meat we eat.

Drink the Recommended 8 Glasses of Water Per Day
I drink more water now than ever before, but I know it’s not the recommended eight cups. I’d say I’m somewhere between four and six right now.

Exercise and Fitness Goals

Exercise at Least 5 Days a Week
This is another repeat goal from last year. I’m almost there now. I’d say I exercise at least four days a week; many times last year I exercised six days a week. The problem is that I was sporadic in my workout schedules. That whole “consistency” theme is big on this one.

Be Able to Do 10 Regular Pushups With Proper Form
As of now, I can do three regular/guy-style pushups with proper form.

Run a Half-Marathon
I ran my first 10K last year. I’d like to challenge myself to a half-marathon this year.

Volunteer/Service Goals

Write My “Sister” From Women for Women International at Least 3 Times
I love being a sponsor for Women for Women International, but I haven’t been as involved as I could.

Donate Items to Laura’s House or Salvation Army
I do this at least once a year. This should be an easy goal to accomplish. Got to have at least one freebie, right?

Spiritual Goals

Meditate for 10 Minutes at Least 3 Days Per Week
Since I failed at my “meditate daily” goal for last year, I figured I’d better take it down a notch, and try again this year.

Home Goals

Deep Clean Our Apartment
We need to purge a lot of clutter. As long as I break this big goal down into smaller ones (clean out this drawer, go through this closet), it will be manageable. Granted, I still expect this to take all year.

Well, now that I’m looking over my list of goals for this year, it still looks like a lot to accomplish — even with paring down the list. I feel good about it though — it feels appropriately challenging. It also feels exciting and a little intimidating, which is a strong sign I’m on the right track.

If I had to pick the top three goals I want to accomplish for 2012, they would be:

  1. Excel in My New Job
  2. Get 5 New Clients
  3. Run a Half-Marathon

How about you? What are your three major goals that you want to accomplish for 2012?

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My 2011 Personal Annual Review

Cheers to all the goals you accomplished in 2011. Happy New Year!

I hope you enjoyed spending time with loved ones during the last week or two and are as eager and excited as I am to make 2012 your best year yet!

Before we go full steam ahead though, it helps to take some time and look back at 2011. What went well? What didn’t? What did you learn or gain from your mistakes and stumbles?

Answering these questions is why I love doing a personal annual review. This exercise allows me to look back at all of my goals and see clearly where I excelled and where I fell short. I can then put that knowledge to use moving forward for 2012.

Here’s how I did on my 2011 goals:

Professional Goals

Get a New Job – Nailed It
While I loved (and still do) WebMD, I reached a plateau, and it became clear it was time for me to move on. I learned that just because my skills were not appreciated at one company did not mean that they were not valuable skills.

When I found a company that looked like a good fit, and I submitted my resume, they responded back enthusiastically. It was a good reminder on several levels:

  1. If you’re unhappy in your job, create an exit strategy.
  2. Always believe in yourself.
  3. Wait for a partnership that is as equally excited about you as you are it.

(If you were wondering, I am now a copywriter for Ignite Health.)

Enroll in the Holistic Health Coaching Program at the Institute for Integrative Nutrition – Nailed It
I’m learning so much from IIN, and I’m glad I started when I did.

I’ve lost weight, improved my relationship with my husband, increased my energy, reduced my stress and improved my eating habits — and I’m not even finished yet!

Get 1 Client – Nailed It
I have not one but two clients currently enrolled in my six-month program!

I learned that talking enthusiastically about what you love to do really does attract people. I love, love, love health coaching and helping people amaze themselves. Keeping this in mind will help me help even more people.

Write One Post Per Week – Not Good Enough
I have been haphazard in my posting schedule. I learned that when my priorities are self-care, family, work, clients, school, blog, that what’s on the bottom of the list tends to fall off the plate. If I want to return to a weekly posting schedule, then I need to do a better job of blocking off a specific time to ensure this happens.

Create and Send Monthly Newsletters – Fail
I signed up with Aweber but am now considering switching to MailChimp because it is less expensive for newbies like me.

Create and Teach a Monthly Teleclass – OK
I spent a lot of work on this and was really proud of what I created. I did teach a couple of classes with a handful of participants. However, I fell below expectations at promoting the course and finding time to teach it. This is definitely something to work on for 2012.

Create Marketing Materials – OK
This goal is coming along, but it won’t be finalized by the end of the year. I did not plan on the marketing materials taking as long as they have. My designer and I both have full-time jobs in addition to our side work, so that should have been an indicator to take whatever my timeframe was and double it.

Relationship Goals

Go on a Mini Vacation With Mr. Man – Not Good Enough
All of our vacation days this year were allotted to weddings and family visits or vacations. While we had a blast at each event and some alone time, we did not go anywhere just the two of us. The lack of just-us time lead to some tension build-up that could have been avoided.

Visit My New Nephew – Nailed It
I was able to go out and see my newest nephew earlier this year. So glad I did – he is adorable!

Call Out-of-State Friends More Regularly (as in More Than Once or Twice Per Year) – OK
The good news: I have many wonderful, amazing friends. The bad news: I did not call all of them as much as I would have liked.

The reoccurring problem I face is that when we go a long time without talking, there’s always so much to catch up on, whereas if we talked regularly, there wouldn’t be a gob of information to share. I’m unsure of how to break this cycle …

Financial Goals

Continue to Reduce Credit Card Debt – Kudos
We have reduced our credit card debt from more than $25,000 to about $16,000. It would be right around $12,000 if I hadn’t registered for school using a credit card. However, I know that was worth going into a little more debt temporarily.

We’re also still reducing our student loan debt, although that is going much more slowly.

Build an Emergency Savings Fund – OK
We created a savings fund, but then we used the money to help fund trips and Christmas shopping. So, while we didn’t go into more debt, we also still don’t have an emergency savings fund established.

Diet and Nutrition Goals

Drink More Water – Kudos
I’m definitely drinking more water than I ever have in my life, but I know I could be doing better.

Eat More Fruits and Vegetables – Kudos
I credit my health counseling program with helping me have some of the best eating habits I’ve ever had in my life. I am eating a lot more fruits and vegetables, especially now that I started having my smoothies for breakfast regularly, and I am much more aware of how my food choices affect my body, mind, and spirit.

Creating meal plans, found here, has also been a big help.

Reduce Meat Consumption – Kudos
I’ve definitely cut back on my meat consumption. I eat vegetarian or pescetarian about three to four days a week now. However, I still have a substantial wings addiction that I’m sure is not healthy.

Exercise and Fitness Goals

Run a 10K – Nailed It
I ran my first 10K this year at the Dana Point Turkey Trot. My goal was simply to finish the race pain-free, which I did. (I had been in and out of physical therapy at Body Awareness to recover from IT band syndrome and a pulled groin on separate occasions.)

My time was: 1 hour 10 minutes and 53 seconds. In my age group of 25- to 29-year-old women, I finished 242 out of 293. So, it was nothing spectacular, but it gives me a benchmark for my next 10K.

Exercise 5 Days a Week – OK
Some weeks, I was totally on; I exercised not just five, but six days a week! Then other times, I would go a week or two without exercising at all.

Try a New Exercise Class – Nailed It
This year, in an effort to shake up my exercise routine, I tried three new classes at my gym 24 Hour Fitness. Here are my mini reviews of each one:

Zumba didn’t really feel like exercise or fun, just awkwardness.

Granted, it could have been that the instructor was having an off day, but Turbo Kick felt as if I could have gotten the same workout results if I had just constantly jumped and thrashed around for an hour straight.

The Kick Butt Boot Camp was by far the best; it certainly upheld its name. I’m looking forward to this class more in 2012.

Volunteer and Service Goals

Put on a Sold-Out Show of “The Vagina Monologues” and Donate Proceeds to Charity – Nailed It
This was such an incredible experience. It blew away my expectations – we filled Knuckleheads to capacity Friday night and had to turn people away Saturday night. We raised more than $5,000 for Laura’s House and V-Day non-profit foundations.

Write Sponsor Sister Through Women for Women International Once a Month – Fail
I’m a proud sponsor of Women for Women International, but I was a terrible “sister” to my match in Iraq. I didn’t write her a single letter the whole year. At least I’m still involved, and I know my money is going to good use.

Volunteer With Hospice – Fail
As much as I loved this passion project, I had to let it go so that I could devote more time and energy to the other projects on my plate.

On the positive side, it allowed me to say “no” to something, which I often have a hard time doing.

Spiritual Goals

Meditate Daily – Not Good Enough
Again, I was intermittent in this. I’d meditate four days in a row and then go 10 days without doing it.

Home Goals

Deep Clean the Apartment – Not Good Enough
The only room I entirely deep cleaned (dusted, swept, mopped, cleaned out drawers, threw out unused/old stuff, etc.) was our main bathroom. I think the entire apartment was too ambitious.

Wow, looking back, 2011 was a busy, productive year!

Sure there were some letdowns, but the important thing is that I learned something from each failure. Now I can put those lessons to use when I plan and set my goals for 2012.

What surprises – good or bad – did you encounter in 2011?

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How to Conduct Your Own Personal Annual Review

Conduct your own personal annual review

Taking the time to review your progress on your goals from this year will help you accomplish even more next year.

If you work or have worked in a corporate environment, then you are familiar with the annual review process. Depending on your specific job and company, sometimes these annual reviews are helpful, and sometimes they are a big waste of time.

The key to having a successful annual review is that it be personal and relevant to you.It should give you feedback on what you’re doing right and what you need to improve upon. It should provide clear direction on what action steps you need to take to your reach your goals for the next year.

Why Conduct a Personal Annual Review?

While we’re used to annual reviews in our professional lives, most of us are not accustomed to doing this sort of audit with our personal lives. Yet, I find it to be one of the most useful tools in helping me create the happiest, healthiest life possible measured in my own terms of success.

It’s a simple and effective way to see if my actions aligned with my beliefs and desires.

One of my mentors, Chris Guillebeau, was the first person to turn me on to conducting a personal annual review, and he provides excellent resources for how he does his.

Unfortunately, last year I failed to do a review and plan for 2011. However, you can see an example of this with my 2009 annual review.

My Annual Review Criteria

While my annual review is similar to Chris’s, I break mine down more.

First, I divide my goals into eight categories:

  • Professional Goals
  • Relationship Goals
  • Financial Goals
  • Diet and Nutrition Goals
  • Exercise and Fitness Goals
  • Volunteer and Service Goals
  • Spiritual Goals
  • Home Goals

Then, I evaluate my goals in descending order of importance. So the most important goals for the year are at the top, the least crucial goals are at the bottom. Next, I ask myself the following questions with each goal:

  • How did I do?
  • What did I learn?
  • How can I apply the findings to help me move forward or improve upon my future goals?

This year, I also tweaked my review method by adding some evaluation grades for the, “How did I do?” question:

  • Fail
  • Not Good Enough
  • OK
  • Kudos
  • Nailed It

Here’s an example:

Professional Goals

Get a New Job – Nailed It

While I loved (and still do) WebMD, I reached a plateau. It became clear that it was time for me to move on. I learned that just because my skills were not appreciated and utilized at one company did not mean that they were not valuable skills. When I found a company that looked like a good fit, and I submitted my resume, they responded back enthusiastically. It was a refreshing reminder on several levels:

  1. If you’re unhappy or feel stuck in your job, attempt to make it better. If that effort goes nowhere, create an exit strategy.
  2. Always believe in yourself.
  3. Seek job opportunities that reciprocate your excitement to work together.

(If you were wondering, I am now a copywriter for Ignite Health.)

Enroll in the Holistic Health Coaching program at the Institute for Integrative Nutrition – Nailed It

I’m learning so much from school, and I’m glad I started when I did. Being enrolled in school is helping me move forward with other professional goals.

Again, these are just a couple of examples. Next post, I’ll share my full annual review for 2011.

Until then, I’d love to hear how you handled your own personal annual review. What did you discover?

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Maximize Your Energy With This One-Week ‘Super Foods’ Meal Plan, Grocery List and Recipes

I’m so pleased that my posts, “One-Week Pescetarian Meal Plan, Grocery List and Recipes” and “My No-Dairy Diet Experiment (With Accompanying Hellacious Meal Plan)” have helped so many people. While I have not crafted as many of these posts as I would like, here’s a new one that is much overdue.

This time, I’m proud to introduce a week of meals based on “super foods” that will increase your energy, vitality and immunity naturally. Below you’ll see the meal plan, grocery list and recipe links. You can also find this post and other meal plans under the Free Tools for Diet and Nutrition Goals at the top of the page.

Special Note: If you find yourself tired all the time and are looking for a healthy way to improve your energy, sign up for my free 90-minute teleclass tonight, Thursday, Oct. 27, 2011 at 6 p.m. PST. It will equip you with concrete steps and action plans that you can put into practice immediately to dramatically boost your energy naturally and motivate you to make the most of your day. Learn more and sign up here.

As I’ve mentioned before, the best way to stick to any kind of diet is to plan ahead. That’s why I try to plan our family’s meals ahead of time on Sundays.

I know it may seem like a hassle at first, but planning your family’s meals ahead of time actually saves you a ton of time through the week, especially when you’re juggling work, family and a side hustle or passion project.

Please feel free to adjust the recipes and snacks to your preference. Enjoy!

Here is the accompany grocery list of super foods and other ingredients you’ll need for the super foods meal plan. Just click on the image to print out the list separately.

Super Foods Grocery List

And here are the links to the accompanying recipes:

What did you think? I’d love to hear how you you felt after trying this meal plan for the week!

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